Positive Intelligence teaches us how to convert our Saboteurs into Sage. All of our Saboteurs are based in Fear and they create havoc in our lives, our work and/or our relationships. One of my favorite Sage powers is the Empathize Power. It takes away our saboteur lies (such as that we need to beat ourselves… Read more »

Have people told you that you are too controlling? Do you show up with strong energy and need to take charge? Controllers feel high anxiety when things are not going their way. They get angry and intimidating when others don’t follow their dictates. The Controller does get temporary results but others feel resentful around them…. Read more »

It’s great to be an Achiever, but what happens when we become a HYPER-Achiever? Our self-worth becomes dependent on external success to attain self-respect and self-validation. We can become workaholics, and our emotions get in the way of our performance. For peace and happiness, let go of the HYPER part of achieving and love yourself… Read more »

What are our Saboteurs? I’ve taken the Saboteur Assessment with Positive Intelligence and discovered that I’m an Avoider, a Pleaser, a Stickler and a Hyper-Achiever. Contact me if you’d like to discover your top Saboteurs. Getting to know them will change your life!

I highly recommend Eckhart Tolle’s book, The Power of Now. I read it years ago, but it still speaks to me. When we carry around any form of negativity, we are not living in the NOW. The negativity may take the form of resentment, unwillingness, judgment, dissatisfaction, etc. All of these are examples of resisting… Read more »

Anger is entirely based in FEAR. When we’re angry, it’s never for the reason we think it is. Anger is definitely coming from EGO. And it puts us straight into reactive mode. Anger is a form of attack, and we can be using it to attack someone else, or we can turn it inward upon… Read more »

Isn’t it interesting how quickly we can get upset? We can quickly be moved to fear, worry, depression, anxiety, hatred, jealousy, etc. And then what happens? We may go straight into reactive mode. We may engage in an endless cycle of attack/counter-attack, with ourselves or with others. The thing is, we’re upset because we see… Read more »

I work with people who want to experience joy and peace and harmony, but their lives reflect only chaos, fear and to-do lists that get longer every day. People who are filled with doubts about the future and regrets about the past. The human condition is so filled up with the negative side of things…. Read more »

Have you noticed a tendency to look around, asking, “How am I doing?” Are you constantly seeking approval from others? This is such a drain on our power, and it keeps us from fulfilling our dreams. We want to “confirm” ourselves by getting accolades, agreement, even permission. All of this stems from FEAR: fear that… Read more »

In the midst of chaos, we can do this. We can train ourselves to take a brief pause – it can be VERY brief, just long enough to go within instead of reacting to what is going on around us. Once within, we can focus on our heart center. Imagine your heart radiating love. When… Read more »